In an effort to write more frequently, I decided to take part in the Blogging Every Day in May challenge. I know I’m coming into it a few days behind, so I’ll be posting quite a few things in the next couple days as I get caught up.
I Get Uncomfortable When.....
…I am in large groups of people. I can do very well in small
groups (like four or five people), even if I don’t know all of them. But my
discomfort grows in direct proportion to the number of people present in a
group, even if I know them all. I much prefer small, intimate gatherings over
large parties with a bunch of people.
…I have to teach someone something. Even if I know my
subject matter like the back of my hand, I still get nervous that I’m going to
miss something really important, or explain something incorrectly. I don’t like
being responsible for making sure that other people know what they’re doing,
mostly because I feel like I don’t even know what I’m doing most of the time.
…I have to confront someone about something. I really dislike
having to tell someone they’re doing something wrong, or that they’ve hurt my
feelings, or deliver any other kind of message that could be interpreted as
negative. I freeze up, and even if I have written down and/or practiced what I want
to say, I instantly freeze up and forget everything, and then end up sound like
a tongue-tied idiot with absolutely no grasp of the English language. I also
don’t like hurting anyone’s feelings, and I often worry that my frustration
over a certain situation will somehow translate into the other party feeling
bad about themselves.
…I work out in front of people. I know it shouldn’t be a big
deal, but any time I’m working out at a gym or where people can see me, I feel
like people are judging my form (which is probably awful), looking at my gym
clothes (which are usually just ratty old t-shirts), or giggling to themselves
about the way my less-than-toned arms jiggle when I move. Rationally, I understand
that probably none of these things are happening, so I am usually able to
*mostly* ignore my insecurities and get on with my workout, but the thoughts do
always cross my mind, nonetheless.
…I go shopping. Most girls love to shop – for clothes, for
shoes, for jewelry, whatever. I, however, pretty much dislike the whole thing. I
have what I consider to be a weirdly shaped body (which is really just short
and curvy), and I find it difficult to find clothes that fit comfortably and
properly, and are any kind of reasonably affordable at the same time. Shoes are
also difficult, because even though I loooooove them, I have a hard time
finding pairs that fit my miniature feet.
What things make you uncomfortable?
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